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Having a good heart makes dating hard. Lately, everyone wants to be tough. People are terrified of love so they find comfort in knowing their masks allow them to leave whenever they feel like it. The world is full of lazy lovers who want relationships without working for it. They claim to love, but their actions paint a disappointing picture. I knew a woman who loved a man very much. She asked of him one thing; his love. He just couldn’t love her. She was a woman who any man could be proud of having, but he ended up leaving her and settling for someone else. She was a good woman too, but she never challenged him, she never pushed him to become better and she was not complicated. So because being with her was easy, he thought she was the one. He was happy for a while, but then he started to miss the woman who taught him how to love. By the time he realised this it was too late. She was married to someone who saw what he couldn’t. My point is that love isn’t supposed to be easy. It is a journey that very few people get to enjoy, because they refuse to think long term. They live in the ‘now’ of things. When you choose a life partner, you are ultimately choosing your future. A complicated man or woman will not be easy, but they will be worth it. The complicated partner might argue with you all the time, but there will never be someone who will pray, love, respect and push you to be the best version of yourself than the complicated partner. And when they’ve reached their full potential with you, all those arguments will fade. You will learn to communicate better and finally trust that they’ve had your best interest at heart from the beginning.